- Dallas, TX
In a society where busy schedules and family-centric events can strain even the strongest bonds, we understand the unique dynamics that, without the proper tools, often drive couples apart rather than bring them together. The Stromans guide couples through two-and three-day journeys of healing and restoration. Specializing in serving high-performing couples who face the challenges of a marriage in crisis, Randy and Debbie are committed to providing a safe space for couples to experience transformation for their marriage.
Since day one of their relationship, Randy and Debbie have focused on building their own marriage. Both coming from unwanted divorces, they are committed to continually learning the simple, yet effective principles that create a healthy marriage and living those principles daily. Their passion is sharing what they learn with other couples, helping them experience the same joy and peace in their marriage.
Over a decade ago, Randy and Debbie Stroman left successful corporate careers to pursue a mission of building faith-based leaders and healthy marriages through coaching. Since that time, they have coached hundreds of clients in all fifty states and 22 different countries. As Coaches and Mediators, their mission is to help couples learn to do marriage God’s way.
Randy and Debbie have four grown children and two grandchildren and reside in Dallas, TX.
Hope! This is the most common word we hear from couples after their first encounter with Randy and Debbie Stroman. Hope their marriage can improve. Hope the pain can be replaced with peace of mind. Hope that even their marriage can be saved. Hope that they can learn to forgive and trust again. We find great fulfillment in helping couples uncover and overcome the obstacles standing in the way of their relationship dreams and goals, empowering them to break through barriers and achieve lasting results.
Our passion for leadership and relationship excellence has been fueled by our mentors, Dr. John C. Maxwell and Dr. Jimmy Evans. Their investment in us has been multiplied through our ministry to hundreds of couples, professionals, entrepreneurs, pastors, and individuals worldwide. Our unique blend of leadership experience and a passion for doing marriage God’s way allows us to guide couples toward marriage transformation.
In a society where busy schedules and family-centric events can strain even the strongest bonds, we understand the unique dynamics that, without the proper tools, often drive couples apart rather than bring them together.
The Stromans guide couples through two-and three-day journeys of healing and restoration. Specializing in serving high-performing couples who face the challenges of a marriage in crisis, Randy and Debbie are committed to providing a safe space for couples to experience transformation for their marriage.
Since day one of their relationship, Randy and Debbie have focused on building their own marriage. Both coming from unwanted divorces, they are committed to continually learning the simple, yet effective principles that create a healthy marriage and living those principles daily. Their passion is sharing what they learn with other couples, helping them experience the same joy and peace in their marriage.
Over a decade ago, Randy and Debbie Stroman left successful corporate careers to pursue a mission of building faith-based leaders and healthy marriages through coaching. Since that time, they have coached hundreds of clients in all fifty states and 22 different countries. As Coaches and Mediators, their mission is to help couples learn to do marriage God’s way.
Randy and Debbie have four grown children and two grandchildren and reside in Dallas, TX.
Marriage Restoration Mediation is an innovative marriage-saving intensive for couples seeking healing and restoration in their marriage. Couples no longer must choose between counseling or divorce when their marriage is at a crossroad. Through Marriage Restoration Mediation, you can experience immediate transformation by combining biblically based resources and mediation techniques for long term restoration. There is hope for even the most troubled marriage.
While divorce mediation is about 85% successful in peacefully separating couples, Marriage Restoration Mediation is about 95% successful in peacefully bringing couples back together. Many couples who have gone through divorce mediation say that if they had known how to use mediation techniques to resolve differences, they would not have divorced.
We teach you simple, yet highly effective techniques that help you define the issue, effectively communicate your desired outcome, and select specific steps to peacefully resolve the issues driving the conflict.
Marriage Restoration Mediation doesn’t treat, or dig deeply into past hurts and trauma, but focuses on teaching to transform. Marriage Restoration Mediation is not intended to replace therapy or counseling but can be a highly effective alternative for many couples. A high percentage of couples that seek Marriage Restoration Mediation have already gone through counseling. Marriage Restoration Mediation is for couples who are experiencing destructive conflict but want to heal their relationship.
There are only three topics we do not handle in Marriage Restoration Mediation (the Three A’s): current physical abuse, current substance addiction, and active affairs. Past instances of these three are allowed in Mediation, so long as they are not current and ongoing. Most other subjects that cause conflict in marriage are commonly addressed, including finances, children, extended family, sexual intimacy, pornography, and work/life balance. Other than the Three A’s above, the only limit is the willingness of the couple to participate in the process.
It is never too late to transform your marriage, as long as your spouse hasn’t remarried. We work with couples at all stages of difficulty.
The answer to that question is an emphatic YES. However, most people ask this question to justify divorce. The real question you should be asking is, “How do we stop fighting all the time for the sake of the kids?”
There are several reasons for choosing to stay together for the sake of your kids. They include the following:
a. Time can heal wounds: With the right training, transparency, and forgiveness, couples that stay together are happier five years down the road. Through Marriage Restoration Mediation, you can work through the problems in your relationship and end up even happier later.
b. Fewer Behavioral Issues: Statistically, your kids will have fewer behavioral issues if you focus on restoring your marriage rather than how to divide up the kids.
c. Stop Hereditary Divorce: Children who have stability in their home with both parents are more likely to have successful relationships as adults. When your child sees you staying together, they are less likely to divorce their future spouse.
d. Better Financial Foundation: Children from stable families have a higher standard of living compared to children of divorced parents.
e. Healthier Relationships with Adult Children: Even if you split amicably, the kids can be filled with anger and resentment, negatively impacting your relationship with them as adults.
Find hope and healing with Marriage Restoration Mediation. We’re here to guide you in restoring and transforming your marriage, helping you reconnect and thrive.
