- Dallas, TX
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Resolve Your Marital
Conflict Peacefully
Take the first step toward healing your marriage
Because you are reading this, I know you are hurting. Conflict may be tearing your marriage apart. While this may come as a surprise to you, conflict is not the problem. Conflict exists in every relationship. What is causing you pain is the inability to resolve conflict peacefully. That is what destroys marriages.
When you are experiencing continual conflict, it may seem like the entire marriage is bad. In reality, your conflict is driven by issues impacting less than 20% of your relationship, but that small percentage is causing you 100% of your pain. Imagine knowing how to peacefully resolve that conflict, finding agreement in the 20% that is causing you 100% of your pain. That’s what Marriage Restoration Mediation can do for you.
restore your marriage in three simple steps
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Request a 60-Minute Marriage Restoration Mediation Assessment
This is where we hear your voice and provide you with time to share your perspectives. This will allow us to determine if mediation is appropriate for your marriage. Next, we will explain the Marriage Restoration Mediation process so you will know what to expect. Finally, the session will conclude with personalized recommendations to continue your marriage restoration journey.
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Conduct Your Marriage Restoration Mediation Intensive.
Our two-day private one-on-one Marriage Restoration Mediation is designed for couples who are struggling with multiple issues and/or feeling hopeless about the future of their marriage. This intensive approach allows couples the extended time needed to fully process their primary issues without the interruption of time or hassle of scheduling multiple weekly sessions.
As you work through your biggest issues, you will experience transformation toward a healthy marriage.
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Aftercare.
Continue to nurture your marriage with aftercare sessions that go beyond mediation. We’re here to walk beside you as you integrate the tools you’ve discovered into your daily life and help you hold yourself accountable to the plan you create for your marriage. Remember, you’re never on this journey alone. Our commitment is to provide ongoing guidance and inspire you toward a lasting, love-filled partnership.
what is marriage restoration mediation?
When your marriage is struggling, experiencing destructive conflict, or has reached an impasse, you need someone to stand in the gap between the two of you, to provide wisdom, discernment, wise counsel, and help you develop a plan for restoration. This perfectly describes Marriage Restoration Mediation, which is a conflict resolution process for couples desiring to move beyond just staying married to thriving in their relationship.
The term “mediation” has primarily been used in connection with divorce mediation. While highly effective, the divorce mediator is focused on peacefully separating couples. However, why spend a significant amount of money to terminate a marriage (usually between $6,000 and $8,000), when you can invest considerably less in a process that is highly effective at peacefully restoring your marriage, keeping your kids with their parents.
A Better Marriage Is Possible
We believe that with the right information and a mutual commitment to success, even the unhealthiest relationships can be healed. As you discipline yourself to practice the tools you learn, you will begin to see a change in your thinking. Based on past results, we are confident your time spent in Marriage Restoration Mediation will be the best investment you have made for your relationship.
A Better Marriage Is Possible
We believe that with the right information and a mutual commitment to success, even the unhealthiest relationships can be healed. As you discipline yourself to practice the tools you learn, you will begin to see a change in your thinking. Based on past results, we are confident your time spent in Marriage Restoration Mediation will be the best investment you have made for your relationship.
SERVICES OFFERED
Marriage Restoration Mediation
Crisis couples who want to avoid divorce and get back on the road to a healthy marriage
Marriage Coaching
Marriage refresher for healthy happy couples wanting an even better marriage
Marriage Retreats / Destination Mediation
Destination events for married couples wanting to connect with other like-minded couples, including cruises
Testimonial
What People Say About Us?
My husband and I recently attended a Marriage Mediation. I can’t thank God enough for bringing us....
L.F.
Nebraska
The best part of Mediation is that the tools we gained come with us forever, it’s an invaluable investment....
J.C.
Maryland
I feel like a massive weight has been lifted off my shoulders and I can breathe again. Hope in my....
B.P.
Arkansas
A few weeks ago, I felt very lost. I had many questions and not a lot of answers. I still had some....
J.G.
California
I feel like the Mediation was a breakthrough I have been longing for over many years. It has equipped....
L.B.
Florida
Before came to Mediation, we could not discuss our issues without escalating. Neither of us felt heard or....
D.T.
Montana
My expectations? I wasn’t sure what to expect when I came to mediation. I was desperate to have God’s....
H.H.
Texas
Great to see my wife connect with Debbie so well. She is a blessing. Randy is masterful at leading us....
W.H.
Texas
The 5 steps to Transformation will save your marriage, it’s a complete step-by-step guidebook on solving....
M.S.
Australia
This program is led by people who have experienced failure and then victory in their marriage. They....
B.E.
Ohio
The Dream is True. You are 100% guaranteed to have not just what your heart desired when you first....
M.B.
California
The experience from our Mediation exceeded any expectations I had. From the first session until the last....
L.W.
Alabama
Do it now! Don’t wait! Randy and Debbie helped us to remember to do marriage Gods way and....
K.H.
Texas
This was an opportunity to spend time with a couple that has been there…real life experience. They....
T.S.
Texas
Based on the miniscule amount of information I knew about marriage mediation. I didn’t know....
M.T.
Georgia
My husband and I came to our Mediation session looking for healing. We have been married for....
L.E.
Texas
e came with Hurt and Pain. We knew that God can do anything. Randy and Debbie walked us through....
D.E.
Texas
frequently ask questions
What is Marriage Restoration Mediation?
Marriage Restoration Mediation is an innovative marriage-saving intensive for couples seeking healing and restoration in their marriage. Couples no longer must choose between counseling or divorce when their marriage is at a crossroad. Through Marriage Restoration Mediation, you can experience immediate transformation by combining biblically based resources and mediation techniques for long term restoration. There is hope for even the most troubled marriage.
Does Marriage Restoration Mediation work?
While divorce mediation is about 85% successful in peacefully separating couples, Marriage Restoration Mediation is about 95% successful in peacefully bringing couples back together. Many couples who have gone through divorce mediation say that if they had known how to use mediation techniques to resolve differences, they would not have divorced.
What is the Mediation process?
We teach you simple, yet highly effective techniques that help you define the issue, effectively communicate your desired outcome, and select specific steps to peacefully resolve the issues driving the conflict.
How is Marriage Restoration Mediation different from counseling?
Marriage Restoration Mediation doesn’t treat, or dig deeply into past hurts and trauma, but focuses on teaching to transform. Marriage Restoration Mediation is not intended to replace therapy or counseling but can be a highly effective alternative for many couples. A high percentage of couples that seek Marriage Restoration Mediation have already gone through counseling. Marriage Restoration Mediation is for couples who are experiencing destructive conflict but want to heal their relationship.
What are the most common issues resolved in Marriage Restoration Mediation?
There are only three topics we do not handle in Marriage Restoration Mediation (the Three A’s): current physical abuse, current substance addiction, and active affairs. Past instances of these three are allowed in Mediation, so long as they are not current and ongoing. Most other subjects that cause conflict in marriage are commonly addressed, including finances, children, extended family, sexual intimacy, pornography, and work/life balance. Other than the Three A’s above, the only limit is the willingness of the couple to participate in the process.
My spouse has already filed for divorce. Is it too late for us?
It is never too late to transform your marriage, as long as your spouse hasn’t remarried. We work with couples at all stages of difficulty.
Wouldn’t the kids be better off without us fighting all the time?
The answer to that question is an emphatic YES. However, most people ask this question to justify divorce. The real question you should be asking is, “How do we stop fighting all the time for the sake of the kids?”
There are several reasons for choosing to stay together for the sake of your kids. They include the following:
a. Time can heal wounds: With the right training, transparency, and forgiveness, couples that stay together are happier five years down the road. Through Marriage Restoration Mediation, you can work through the problems in your relationship and end up even happier later.
b. Fewer Behavioral Issues: Statistically, your kids will have fewer behavioral issues if you focus on restoring your marriage rather than how to divide up the kids.
c. Stop Hereditary Divorce: Children who have stability in their home with both parents are more likely to have successful relationships as adults. When your child sees you staying together, they are less likely to divorce their future spouse.
d. Better Financial Foundation: Children from stable families have a higher standard of living compared to children of divorced parents.
e. Healthier Relationships with Adult Children: Even if you split amicably, the kids can be filled with anger and resentment, negatively impacting your relationship with them as adults.
