By Randy and Debbie Stroman There is a quiet decision many couples make during difficult seasons. They decide to wait. They hope the conflict will calm down. They assume the tension will fade. They convince themselves that “it’s not that bad.” They stay busy, avoid hard conversations, and tell themselves they will deal with it...
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Since the very beginning of time, each generation, every society, has risen or fallen on the strength of its most foundational institution: the family. And at the heart of every strong family is a strong marriage.
Marriage is more than a private relationship—it is for the public good. It anchors communities, nurtures children, and models commitment in a world saturated with disposable values. When marriages thrive, society thrives. When marriages collapse, the effects ripple outward—impacting economics, education, mental health, crime, and culture.
Children first learn truth, love, respect, discipline, and faithfulness in the context of a healthy marriage. Countless studies confirm that children raised by both biological parents in a stable marriage are more likely to succeed academically, avoid poverty, and develop emotional resilience.
When we fight for marriages, we’re fighting for the next generation’s ability to lead, serve, and flourish.
According to the Brookings Institute, if a person does just three things—graduates high school, works a full-time job, and waits until marriage to have children—there’s only a 2% chance they will live in poverty. Marriage is an economic glue. It stabilizes homes, reduces reliance on government assistance, and builds generational wealth.
When we fight for marriages, we’re fighting for a stronger economic future.
Fatherlessness and family fragmentation are among the greatest predictors of youth delinquency and incarceration. Rebuilding marriages rebuilds communities. Married couples are more likely to vote, volunteer, and give to charity. In short, they contribute more because they are rooted more deeply.
When we fight for marriages, we’re fighting for safer communities.
Society depends on citizens who can sacrifice, communicate, forgive, and persevere—qualities that marriage develops by nature. A society that values marriage is a society that values virtue.
When we fight for marriages, we’re fighting for better values.
When marriages fail, the costs are borne by everyone: social services expand, mental health crises increase, children suffer, and cultural trust erodes. The breakdown of the family is not just a private tragedy—it’s a public emergency.
When we fight for marriage, we’re fighting to turn the tide away from divorce and restore trust in marriage.
Saving marriages isn’t just about keeping couples under the same roof—it’s about restoring the heart of our communities and securing a brighter future for generations to come. It’s about healing what’s broken, standing for what’s right, and investing in something that matters more than we can measure: the strength of the family.
But we cannot do this alone.
We need people like you—people who believe in the power of love, commitment, and faith—to stand with us. The fight to save marriage in our lifetime is not a passive effort. It takes courage. It takes compassion. And it takes community.
Every restored marriage strengthens a child’s future. Every healed home ripples outward to touch neighborhoods, schools, and communities. This isn’t just about two people—it’s about rebuilding the very foundation of society.
Let’s be clear: marriage is worth fighting for. Not just for tradition’s sake—but for the sake of hope, healing, and a better tomorrow. Will you help?
Will you join us?
Let’s make this the generation that didn’t give up.
Let’s make this the moment we turned the tide.
Let’s save marriage—and in doing so, let’s save society.
We believe that with the right information and a mutual commitment to success, even the unhealthiest relationships can be healed. As you discipline yourself to practice the tools you learn, you will begin to see a change in your thinking. Based on past results, we are confident your time spent in Marriage Restoration Mediation will be the best investment you have made for your relationship.

















Marriage Restoration Mediation is an innovative marriage-saving intensive for couples seeking healing and restoration in their marriage. Couples no longer must choose between counseling or divorce when their marriage is at a crossroad. Through Marriage Restoration Mediation, you can experience immediate transformation by combining biblically based resources and mediation techniques for long term restoration. There is hope for even the most troubled marriage.
While divorce mediation is about 85% successful in peacefully separating couples, Marriage Restoration Mediation is about 95% successful in peacefully bringing couples back together. Many couples who have gone through divorce mediation say that if they had known how to use mediation techniques to resolve differences, they would not have divorced.
We teach you simple, yet highly effective techniques that help you define the issue, effectively communicate your desired outcome, and select specific steps to peacefully resolve the issues driving the conflict.
Marriage Restoration Mediation doesn’t treat, or dig deeply into past hurts and trauma, but focuses on teaching to transform. Marriage Restoration Mediation is not intended to replace therapy or counseling but can be a highly effective alternative for many couples. A high percentage of couples that seek Marriage Restoration Mediation have already gone through counseling. Marriage Restoration Mediation is for couples who are experiencing destructive conflict but want to heal their relationship.
There are only three topics we do not handle in Marriage Restoration Mediation (the Three A’s): current physical abuse, current substance addiction, and active affairs. Past instances of these three are allowed in Mediation, so long as they are not current and ongoing. Most other subjects that cause conflict in marriage are commonly addressed, including finances, children, extended family, sexual intimacy, pornography, and work/life balance. Other than the Three A’s above, the only limit is the willingness of the couple to participate in the process.
It is never too late to transform your marriage, as long as your spouse hasn’t remarried. We work with couples at all stages of difficulty.
The answer to that question is an emphatic YES. However, most people ask this question to justify divorce. The real question you should be asking is, “How do we stop fighting all the time for the sake of the kids?”
There are several reasons for choosing to stay together for the sake of your kids. They include the following:
a. Time can heal wounds: With the right training, transparency, and forgiveness, couples that stay together are happier five years down the road. Through Marriage Restoration Mediation, you can work through the problems in your relationship and end up even happier later.
b. Fewer Behavioral Issues: Statistically, your kids will have fewer behavioral issues if you focus on restoring your marriage rather than how to divide up the kids.
c. Stop Hereditary Divorce: Children who have stability in their home with both parents are more likely to have successful relationships as adults. When your child sees you staying together, they are less likely to divorce their future spouse.
d. Better Financial Foundation: Children from stable families have a higher standard of living compared to children of divorced parents.
e. Healthier Relationships with Adult Children: Even if you split amicably, the kids can be filled with anger and resentment, negatively impacting your relationship with them as adults.
Find hope and healing with Marriage Restoration Mediation. We’re here to guide you in restoring and transforming your marriage, helping you reconnect and thrive.
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